– Anon, via TelegraphI’m a bit worried about this relationship – or rather, by your attitude to it, if I’m honest. It seems rather contradictory, even confused.For example, you write that you have noticed ‘other’ self-destructive habits.
Other than what? Being gay or bisexual (assuming your suspicions are correct; we’ll come to that) isn’t self-destructive. It’s simply someone’s sexual orientation.
And that in itself certainly has nothing to do with poor financial judgment or a gambling habit. I think you need to separate these issues in your mind.You asked him directly if he’s gay and he told you he isn’t.
Why can’t you accept this? He felt confident enough in his sexuality to confide that he’s had some same-sex experiences in the past.
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