My husband wants us to go to a virtual orgy. He started talking about it during lockdown and I thought it was just an isolation itch, but it seems he’s really curious about how it might give our sex life a boost.
I don’t think our sex life needs a boost and I’m unconvinced that it will be anything other than embarrassing. We’ve been married for 17 years and now that the children are a little older, he says it’s time to ‘concentrate on us’.
But it’s making me anxious— UnconvincedSeventeen years of marriage, multiple children and one pandemic later, it is totally understandable that the idea of anything that gets in the way of Wordle or wild swimming seems both totally exhausting and anxious-making.
You may be thinking, “I’m too tired for this” on a loop. And you may be right, because no one has emerged from this period unscathed so, frankly, to the bruised and cautious, the idea of sexual adventure seems borderline offensive.But it seems your husband is feeling dynamic.
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