Never change who you are for anyone. During a conversation with a friend about how some people allow others to chip away at who they truly are, we came to the conclusion that they often do this just to be part of the “In-Crowd.” Let me explain… I am in an interacial marriage.
The expectation that I tone down my Blackness to better fit in with my husband would never be broached within the confines of our relationship.
My sometimes Southern drawl and multi-syllabic sounds are who I am and becomes more pronounced with friends and family. My use of certain words of endearment such as baby and boo is uniquely me.
These phrases are an intrinsic part of me that I carry across the world with me, and I would never change that for anyone — and especially not to fit in.
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