– Anon, London E3Assuming you want to keep this friendship, you have a choice. You either continue to put up with this boorish behaviour, or you challenge it.
I strongly suggest the latter, because if your friend is behaving like this with you when she’s in drink, she’ll be the same with others – friends, family, colleagues.
I think you owe it as much to her as to yourself to call it out.Obviously you should do this when she’s stone-cold sober. There are two ways of handling it.
Either you can meet for a coffee, and lay things out. Or you can write to her.On something as delicate as this, my preference would be a letter or email, simply because you can choose your words with great care and exactitude.
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