'My girlfriend loves her sex room and always wants to be spanked – I find it childish'

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She’s always adding extra touches to it and it’s her pride and joy.The problem is that she now loves it more than me.I haven’t been well and more than once she’s accused me of dragging her down.Back in 2020 I lost my job and became depressed.

My mum became ill and died, and I broke my arm falling off my bike.For a while I was in a very dark place. I was eventually helped out of it by my oldest mate who took me under his wing and convinced me that life is worth living.These days I’m stable and grateful but still don’t have much energy and get stressed when my girl demands kinky sex and I fail to satisfy.The other night she threw herself onto the spanking bench and demanded I punish her with a paddle but I didn’t have the heart or the strength.She was trussed up in a PVC catsuit with thigh-high boots and it was as much as I could do to stop myself from laughing.

The whole scenario seemed ridiculous.Recent events have sobered me up and I’m so over these childish games.We’ve always invited other people over and indulged in swinging and group sex but again I can’t be bothered.But she says she’ll have to re-think our relationship if I don’t “raise my game”. JANE SAYS: A number of life-changing experiences have forced you to look at your life in a whole new way. Losing your mother and job and injuring your arm knocked you for six.