Woman with full beard admits dating can be hard as people use her as a 'fetish'
dailystar.co.ukdating can be hard.Harnaam Kaur, 31, started growing hair around her throat when she was aged 11 after puberty hit.Her mum took me to the doctor for tests and at 12, she was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a condition that affects women’s hormone levels.Symptoms include irregular periods, growing facial hair and difficulty getting pregnant.After finding out about her condition, Harnaam's mum took her to a salon to get her face waxed.However, as well as constant pain, Harnaam said that instead of being bullied over her facial hair, she was now targeted for having it removed.The waxing also meant the hair was growing back thicker and darker, so Harnaam made the decision to ditch the waxes and let the hair grow.Talking about this to The Mirror, she said: "I was going through all of this pain – because my skin was so soft and sensitive, particularly at that age – and trying so hard to conform, but all for nothing."The hair was also growing back thicker and darker after every wax.
So one day, shortly after my GCSEs, I made a decision."It took a lot of strength but I thought, 'I can either keep trying to fit in or I can be me.'"Harnaam said she spent the whole of the six-week summer holiday from six form 'preparing herself' and then returned with a full beard after the break.Things were tougher than she imagined though, as she added: "Nothing could have prepared me for the hell that awaited me."Things got massively worse and I began to self-harm."I was taunted continuously and suffered awful dreams about being brutally attacked by my school bullies."Harnaam has since struggled with work and her love life.She said: "At 21, I got engaged.
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