READ NEXT: Woman leered at in street over 42E boobs has reduction and 'finally feels comfortable'The videographer’s hunch was correct – as when sought medical advice in 2020, she was diagnosed with vaginismus.A common, but underdiagnosed condition, vaginismus is believed to affect between 5-17% of women worldwide.It forces the vaginal muscles to tighten up when confronted with penetration, causing searing pain during sex or when inserting tampons.As Bailey began looking into the condition, she thought about what may have caused it.She realised her devout Christian upbringing, combined with common myths about sex for women, could have led to her developing vaginismus.As a child, she associated sex with sin and subconsciously feared penetration.Fears that losing her virginity would be painful and cause “bleeding” exacerbated problems too.Thankfully, vaginismus can be “cured” with pelvic floor exercises, vaginal dilators, and psychotherapy.And while these treatments can feel daunting, Bailey is determined to regain control of her body and is supported completely by her long-term partner – Josiah, 22.She said: “I grew up in a strict religious environment, where I associated sex with sin and pain.“I also remember being taught in school that sex was going to be painful, or even being told by older women to just ‘loosen up and have a glass of wine beforehand.’“I count myself really blessed that I have a partner that is so supportive.
He’s here to work through it with me and communicate with me.“Our relationship isn’t based on my ability to have penetrative sex.
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