a lot, a good start might be to try to gently bring yourself to terms with the way you have stood in the way of people of color, metaphorically.
White women are harmed by patriarchy, but we still use a cocktail of femininity and whiteness, consciously or unconsciously, to push ahead.
As my Glamour colleague Anna Moeslin pointed out to me, borrowing from black culture and other minority groups without ever crediting or involving them is the secret sauce that has launched countless white women to influencer status.Think about the feathered white women have continued to wear to music festivals even though Native people have why that is hurtful.
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