Sexperts share three word phrase that 'instantly turns men off' in the bedroom

dailystar.co.uk:

Valentine’s Day is the most romantic day of the year where couples and new dates alike get dressed up and head out for date night.But, on top of the wining and dining many established and new couples also hope to get down and dirty on February 14.But, not every sexual encounter runs smoothly – and two sex therapists have shared the three words that they claim “instantly” turn men off in bed.So, if you’re hoping to get wild it’s best to avoid saying them!

Asa Baav and David Chambers, a couple who run sex and relationship courses around the world, told the Sun that people with male partners should never say this phrase and should be compassionate towards them if suffering from erectile dysfunction (ED).

According to studies around 52% of men will experience some form of ED in their lifetime – so it’s not an uncommon issue to face.And, Asa and David claim people who’s partners are struggling with erectile dysfunction should never say “Is it me?”The experts said: “He might feel like he has failed at being a good lover or a good man and this can affect his self-esteem in and out of the bedroom.“The last thing he wants to hear is: ‘Do you not find me attractive?’“The fact that he is suffering from erectile dysfunction has nothing to do with how attractive you are.”Asa and David added that men who suffer from ED might be feeling stressed out or anxious because he finds you incredibly attractive.A.K.A he might be feeling under pressure to put in a good performance.So, it’s important to be kind and understanding in this situation and not put him under more stress by making him insist that it’s not you at fault.Your sex life will thrive with compassion and a loving approach. What’s your top sex tip?