Cole Escola sits demurely in their dressing room, awaiting the delivery of a green smoothie. It’s a rare moment of downtime for the 37-year-old star and writer of “Oh, Mary!,” the unconventional smash that’s become the toast of Broadway. “I feel like I’m in the eye of a hurricane,” Escola , who’s nonbinary, says from their Pepto Bismol-colored quarters, which have been decorated to the nines by their friend, comedian Amy Sedaris.