— Anon, N YorksHonestly? I think you need to radically rethink what’s going on here. And that’s going to require you to take your injured pride (which I completely understand and sympathise with) and tuck it away right at the back of a deep, dark cupboard.
Let’s start with your stepdaughter. If I’ve done my sums right, she was eight when her parents divorced and 10 when you and her father got together two years later.
That’s a lot for a young child to process. If you’re right, and she resents you, that is nothing to do with the person you are.
It’s what you represent. You’re a usurper (no matter that you came along after her parents split up); and like countless other children who through no fault of their own find themselves in a similar boat, she was pretty much programmed to dislike and begrudge you.
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