– Anon, LancsLove and romance are notoriously difficult to analyse. The late Barry Cryer used to say that trying to analyse a joke was like dissecting a frog: ‘Painful, not funny and the frog dies.’ So it is with matters of the heart, especially when love and desire are tangled up in grief.So I hesitate to try and reduce your new romance to its constituent parts.
Why not simply accept the relationship for what it is? It makes you happy – very happy – as it seemingly does him.What would your wife think?
Well if, as you say, she loved you, surely she would be happy for you – if perhaps as surprised as you are that you are in a same-sex relationship after a lifetime’s heterosexuality.I do wonder about that part, though.
Perhaps you were bisexual all along but were so contentedly married that the other side of your sexual identity lay dormant.
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