'I put my husband before my kids and every married couple should do the same'

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marriage as their number one priority – rather than their children.Sofia and her husband Jay believe a strong foundation between a couple has a direct effect on the kids, so think fulfilling each other's needs is more important.But their opinion caused a stir on TikTok when they openly talked about the issue.Sofia says: "Mums I know why you had that reaction is because every mum has this instinct to take care of their baby right?"We love our kids – we have a son and a daughter – we were not saying not to prioritise your children."I’m going to double down on this though mums."Our society tells you that husbands are disposable and by your comments I know you think that too and I’m going to challenge you on that."Jay then further explains: "You’re wrong if you think your kids come before your marriage because when you have a strong foundation, your chances of having happy, healthy, well adjusted kids goes up exponentially."Some parents quickly fired back and said children are irreplaceable."You can get a divorce in a marriage but you can't abandon your kids," one argued.For more stories from the Daily Star, sign up to one of our newsletters here.A second added: "No, spouses are disposable, children are not. "My ex husband took second place to my daughter, probably that's why we divorced but I don't care."But others agreed with Sofia and Jay, with a woman commenting: "Happy marriage makes everything fall in place.""Your kids will leave you one day, your husbands is your mate for life," another commented ."This generation will be lonely when they are 80 years old."A third added: "If you don't take care of your marriage, you can't take care of your kids.