Dear Richard Madeley: 'Women leave me after I bed them. Am I terrible at sex?'
telegraph.co.uk– Mike, SouthamptonIt’s incredibly hard for anyone to be objective about their own sexual performance. Your analysis of your own bedroom technique is, by definition, subjective – and therefore likely to be flawed, especially as you say you haven’t had much feedback from your partners.
You sound as much driven by insecurity as anything, and that’s bound to be leading you down false paths to false conclusions.You say you’re a fan of logic but I wonder if in your case it’s false logic that’s at play here.
Correlation isn’t the same as causation, Mike: lots of relationships fizzle out after they have been physically consummated, but that can happen for all sorts of reasons.
Why single out your sexual prowess, or rather possible lack of it, for blame? As you say, to the best of your knowledge you aren’t doing anything wrong, or failing to ‘perform’ in the specific physical sense – otherwise you would have said so.The trouble is that now you’ve seized on this theory for relationships ending, it’s become a bit of a ‘thing’ in your head.
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