Game of Thrones as an example. Not only was the depiction of her rape incredibly brutal, but after she survived it, it defined the rest of her plot line on the show.
It became her origin story, in a way. Granted, GoT and I May Destroy You are very different shows. But this show, at least what I've seen so far, works really hard to show you that no person is the one thing that happened to them.
That's incredibly refreshing. It also shows the weird and devastating process of trying to move forward when something terrible has happened to you.
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