Letter subhead: The first is a tall, sociable, happy man who makes me laugh. We have many shared interests and can talk for hours.
I really like him. The strange thing is that after dating for a couple of months now he hasn’t bedded me. As I’ve got older, my desire for sex has become weaker, but it’s still there.
We hug and kiss goodbye and that’s all.The second man is more my type physically and also very intelligent, but we don’t share as many interests.
He worked out on our very first date that I’m sexually submissive without any prompting from me. I always have been but it is a double-edged sword, leading to extreme pleasure but risky, short-term relationships.
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