Woman caps dates at 10 minutes so she can quickly weed out men she doesn't like

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dating hard, as well as time-consuming and expensive.However, Emily Vernem, who is busy looking for love, thinks she's come up with the perfect solution to not waste time or cash.The Aussie admits that she arranges quick dates of up to 30 minutes with men to check whether she likes them before she actually goes on a real date with them.And if she isn't feeling it – she cuts the date short to just 10 minutes.Emily shared her story to Mamamia’s The Lonely Girls Guide as she revealed how "emotionally draining" she finds going on dates – no matter how successful they are.In light of this, she says she's been experimenting with "pre-date screening".Instead of returning home "exhausted," she says she briefly meets up with someone for no longer than 30 minutes – which is just enough time to see if you "vibe" with them.To do this, she messages the guys she'd planned a date with and told them she was in their area that afternoon, so wondered if they'd be free for a quick coffee.Speaking of her first date, Emily said: "We met at a cafe and immediately clicked.

The conversation was effortless, and I was very attracted to him."As she'd planned, she left before 30 minutes – despite admitting she wanted to stay for longer – and was left even more excited about the actual date.However, it didn't turn out like she'd hoped."He messaged me that evening and said that he had a great time meeting me but didn’t think we were compatible," she said.Despite the rejection, Emily admitted she was pleased she hadn't wasted any more time on him.She then messaged the second guy and again, they agreed to meet in a cafe."We met up, and I hated him.