an invitation to be a bridesmaid in a friend’s wedding led to a surprising admission about one of the co-hosts.Whoopi Goldberg, Joy Behar, Sunny Hostin, Sara Haines, and Alyssa Farah Griffin went around the table sharing their bridesmaid tales — and the reasons why they feel it’s acceptable to opt out of someone’s big day. “I had to turn down one. The dress was so hideous,” confessed Hostin, 54.