As far as your weight is concerned, you say yourself the intimacy has never been that great anyway. A relationship breakdown is rarely one person’s problem and it’s very easy for you to blame the weight because this is the prism through which you view your failures.We all have a core blame reflex.
There tends to be one thing with which we beat ourselves when things don’t work out, whether it’s being too nice, too fat, too stupid, too needy, too much.
But in our experience, you can’t change your behaviour for other people. You might try, but you won’t lose weight for him. It won’t stick.And anyway, Bereft, here’s the big question: are you sure he is worth it?
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