alcohol addiction for both those who are using and those who are watching – there is agony everywhere, shame, pain, guilt. We understand your instinct, in the absence of parents or a partner, to look around for a responsible adult only to find – to your horror and surprise – that the responsible adult is you.But we need to tell you, Trying, that no adult, however responsible, will be able to stop your friend from drinking.
She is the only person with that power. We hope this eases your burden a little.So it sounds as if, in this phase of your friend’s drinking, she is all about bargaining with herself: her demons are levelling up the negotiations, so it’s all ‘I’ll deal with it when this happens or that changes’.
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