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Nadia Bokody, a writer from Australia, highlighted a study published The Canadian Journal Of Human Sexuality.Research found that while 63% of men enjoyed oral foreplay during their last sexual encounter, just 44% of women said the same.READ MORE: 'I joined an X-rated dating app but only lasted an hour after awkward blunder'Given that more than half of female study participants said receiving oral is the most reliable way for them to orgasm, this is a real shame. So why is there the disparity?Nadia said: "An informal survey of friends revealed common reasons cited for being denied oral are 'I really only do that with a girlfriend', 'I’ve got a sore neck' and 'It’s just not my thing'."However, the same women said their male partners still expected to be on the receiving end of the act, and that they felt pressured to perform it, even when they didn’t enjoy it."It’s also notable that, each time I post something on social media about this issue, I’m met with men complaining women smell or taste repellent, insisting this is why they won’t go downtown.

Nadia Bokody revealed a common phrase can be a mood-kill in the bedroom because it puts unnecessary pressure on both parties.The Australian writer recalled a time a one-night stand ended in disappointment after her lover tried to dirty talk. READ MORE: Sexpert shares ‘creepy’ difference between how men and women flirt with her She said: “The sex is unexpectedly good, given we just met a couple of hours earlier and have only exchanged basic banter.“So good, in fact, I think I’m going to … OK, wow.

Nadia Bokody shares candid sex advice online – and has attracted a legion of online admirers as a result.But according to the Australian love guru, the messages she receives from male and female fans are very different.While women shower her with kind comments and compliments, men tend to approach in a much more aggressive manner. READ MORE: 'My strict religious background made sex impossible but now I teach others how to do it' The relationships writer, who came out as lesbian a couple of years ago, said she's sent unsolicited d*ck pics and crude messages.She told news.com.au: "If I never have to open another DM from a guy detailing his masturbatory session over me again, it’ll be too soon."Unsurprisingly, the lewd clips don't go down well with Nadia.Instead of making her feel wanted, she sees the X-rated videos as an attempt to exert power over her.The journalist wrote: "It’s always been unclear whether these images and messages are supposed to garner my attention and gratitude, or if they’re actually just aimed at asserting control via the complete and total decimation of my boundaries."Regardless, I’ve never closed out of one of them feeling flattered or empowered."More often than not, I’ve emerged with the sense the man on the other side of the screen sees me as an object he’s entitled access to by default of his sexual interest in me."While some of the DMs she receives from women can be cheeky, Nadia says they take care not to appear "creepy".But contrastingly, men "often appear unaware" that they could be "making (her) feel intimidated or violated".Then when Nadia rejects them, she's branded an "ungrateful b*tch".Thankfully, the writer doesn't let these keyboard warriors hold her back.

sex hacks that actually work – including one involving an egg yolk.Nadia Bokody has scoured the internet to find the best tips out there.She shared them in her weekly column for news.com.au – so would you give any of these a go?READ MORE: Horny husband buys sex doll to bonk when wife isn't in the moodThe G-spot is notoriously elusive and difficult to find.In fact, it's common for women not to be able to orgasm via penetration alone.But a trick that's been used "since the dawn of Reddit" could help ladies find the erogenous zone.It involves putting a pillow underneath your hips during sex, which apparently helps you to hit the sweet spot.Nadia said: "Propping the pelvis up puts the G-spot at an angle that essentially assures it’s hit during sex."It’s not foolproof, but it’s reliable enough to turn most people into believers."Moving on to TikTok, couples have been using eggs to improve their sex lives.Thankfully, it doesn't actually involve cracking them onto anyone.Instead, people are practicing their pleasure techniques by caressing raw egg yolks.Apparently, it's a great way to learn about how delicate vulvas are.Putting too much pressure onto the clitorous can be painful for women, so a soft swirl of the finger can often be stimulation enough.Nadia explained: "In a clip that’s racked up over 13 million views, a woman gently circles a raw egg yolk with her thumb, showing that, when she applies even the tiniest bit of pressure, the yolk immediately breaks."The instructive here being, to approach the clitoris like a yolk you’re carefully trying to avoid rupturing."And this just makes good sexual practice, given the clitoris is home to an estimated eight thousand nerve endings, making it incredibly sensitive to

Nadia Bokody has revealed why you should always read the small print before getting jiggy.Intimate toys can get stuck inside your body if you don't use them properly.One woman was recently rushed to hospital after "cranking up" the speed on her vibrator.And back in March, a "masturbation addict" got a kinky device lodged up her bum. Yikes!With this in mind, the Australian relationships writer has shared her words of warning for those who want to spice up their sex lives.

dating guru has warned of a dangerous sex trend.Nadia Bokody is concerned by the amount of young people who are failing to use contraception.While some protect themselves against pregnancy, many aren't paying enough attention to the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases.A 2021 study published in the Sexologies journal showed 15 to 24-year-olds account for half of STI cases reported annually, which may because just 41% of participants used condoms regularly.And concerningly, Nadia noted how many of her own followers aren't taking proper precautions in the bedroom.

Nadia Bokody is tired of men describing themselves as "nice guys" when they actually do the "bare minimum". The sexpert believes blokes use this term when they do "superficial acts" or have "basic politeness".

Nadia Bokody exposed a bonkers trend, which involves guys bragging about not knowing about female anatomy.These chaps seemed to believe female pleasure is irrelevant when they're having sex – as all focus should be on them in their eyes.In her news.com.au column, the Australian writer wrote: “One of the strangest displays of fragile masculinity I’ve witnessed to date is the idea being a #RealMan means sexually disappointing women, on purpose.“I discovered this bizarre belief recently, via frequent protestations in the comment sections of TikToks I made joking about guys not being able to find the clitoris.“At first, I thought the comments were satire, but as they continued to pile in, I realised they were in fact deadly serious."Nadia added: “These men claim that, actually, they DEFINITELY DO KNOW EXACTLY WHERE THE CLITORIS IS, MMKAY? But, like, they just don’t care.

Nadia Bokody lifted the lid after her nude snap was removed on Instagram.The Australian writer claimed her post had been taken down with a warning on breaching its policy around "sexual solicitation". She was confused since a completely nude photo shared by singer Jack Vidgen remained on the social media platform.Writing for news.com.au, Nadia said: "I was feeling uncharacteristically at ease in my body while away on my first solo holiday.

Nadia Bokody has been exploring sex and debunking several myths over the years, meaning she has built up a relatively large collection of sex toys.Despite her being an expert, she admits she's made the odd mistake along the way, with the Australian star confession her big sex toy error.Writing for The Daily Telegraph Australia, she said: ''About a year ago now, I made a terrible, terrible mistake."In her account of events, she explained that when leaving her apartment, she had gone through the usual list of to-dos."I closed my apartment’s blinds, double-checked the oven and hair straightener were off, and lovingly placed my favourite vibrator in its charging dock," she said.However, the vibrator move turned out to her crucial mishap, as back then she "still wasn’t aware of one of the biggest rules of vibrator ownership".This rule, she said, is to "never, ever leave a vibe on charge for more than two hours".She added: "Though it’s scandalously uncommon knowledge, most sex toys contain lithium-ion batteries – the same kind you’ll find in your laptop – which are sensitive to lengthy charging."Leaving your vibrator plugged in overnight, or for an entire weekend, can create an unstable environment inside the battery, increasing pressure and ultimately putting your vibe at risk of burning out."She says this means you could break your vibrator or significantly shorten its lifespan.Nadia also gave another sex toy tip, saying you should wait until the battery is low, but not dead, before you charge.She said this is because charging a vibrator from 0% can be just as damaging - so it's worth investing in a toy that has an indicator light to let you know when it’s getting close to running out.Nadia said those who really want to make

sex when we’re not in the mood – with research showing 80% of women feel pressured into “seeing it through” to avoid embarrassing their partners. This study disturbed sexpert Nadia Bokody, who used results to expose a common 'lie' men use to convince their partners to pleasure them.

marriage means the end of a good sex life is often thrown around.Before a man walks down the aisle, people often jibe 'Say goodbye to your love life'.And one sexpert has explained what could actually be causing married woman to not have sex with their partners.She said there's one big thing married men often do that puts their wives off nookie.And that's infantile behaviour.Writing for news.com.au, expert Nadia Bokody said: "We’re conditioned to believe the mere act of being chosen by a man is in and of itself the highest form of acknowledgment of our existence."Sure, your husband almost never puts the toilet seat down and still thinks it’s cute to leave a halo of his soiled undies on the floor around the laundry basket, however – YOU HAVE A HUSBAND! So what if you have to mother him every so often?"It’s not like he doesn’t care. He’d truly LOVE to help you out with the groceries.

sex, everyone has different preferences. And if you’re not on the same page as your partner, it can make for awkwardness in the bedroom.

Nadia Bokody says many men are clueless about what women want in the bedroom.The writer, from Australia, admitted she's been with guys who have “treated (her) body like a DJ booth”.Instead of taking the time for foreplay or to be gentle, they’ve got down to business without considering her pleasure.And Nadia isn’t alone with her complaints.On tweet that went viral this week asked: “Ladies: What are the sexual acts you think men should stop during sex? Honest feedback.”There were thousands of responses and a common theme seemed to be “rough handling” and being “aggressive” without permission.Sadly, Nadia wasn’t surprised by these responses.She cited a 2019 survey that showed a third of women have felt uncomfortable when they’ve been slapped,

Nadia Bokody is used to receiving weird and wonderful questions about sex.As she’s a columnist who has written about relationships for more than a decade, she’s addressed all manner of quirks and kinks over the years.But recently, there was a question that left her feeling "depressed" and concerned.Nadia, from Australia, realised she was gay at 36-years-old and left her long-term relationship.She came out as lesbian later on in life than others do, which led to some of her followers being confused about her sexuality.One man wrote in to ask the sexpert: “How do lesbians even have sex, anyway?”Nadia found the question to be “alarming” as it shows “many straight men don’t understand how female sexual pleasure works”.She cited research into

Nadia Bokody discussed the matter after one woman emailed her with a dilemma in the bedroom. She told the Australian how her boyfriend was unwilling to participate in foreplay.Speaking to news.com.au, Nadia said: "Women's bodies aren't complicated.

Nadia Bokody came out as gay after ending a long-term relationship with her boyfriend in Australia.She's not one to shy away from her past experiences between the sheets and has made it her mission to help other women.But since she's opened up about her sexuality, the sex writer has revealed some more truths about her life.During a radio segment earlier this week, Nadia took a call from a woman who made her realise a few things.

Nadia Bokody revealed many come to her for advice on the problem.The love guru, from Australia, told news.com.au: “If there’s one question that comes up most in my emails, it’s people asking me how to tell their partners they’re not satisfied in their sex life…“I sense these people have the idea the sex won’t improve unless they give their spouse a critical rundown of everything they’ve been doing wrong – or not doing – in the bedroom.

Nadia Bokody, from Australia, revealed why many get sucked into late night booty calls instead of commitment.And apparently, it’s all to do with “breadcrumbing”.The term is used to describe people who flirt sporadically, AKA leaving breadcrumbs, so they can lure a romantic partner in without having to make any effort.Effectively, it’s leading someone on and keeping them interested so they’re there when you want attention or to have some fun.Unsurprisingly, this dating sin can be very hurtful to the person being “breadcrumbed” if they’re hoping for more from the relationship.Nadia explained: “I’ve been the person unable to focus on who I’m with because I’m too busy checking my phone in anticipation of a text from someone I like.

Nadia Bokody, one of the biggest turn ons is having a partner who is thoughtful and attentive.It’s a great way to strengthen your bond and can make women feel more comfortable when they get down and dirty. Nadia told news.com.au : “The feeling of fingers confidently interlacing themselves through mine in public.

Nadia Bokody, a sex columnist, says a lot of people who write to her feel as though it means something's wrong in the relationship.But luckily that's not the case... And less sex is actually a lot normal than you think.Speaking to her 271,000 subscribers on YouTube, the Australian said: "Having less sex when time goes in is pretty natural and normal."It happens because we get into a rhythm with our partners and it also happens because life gets in the way."Another reason why it happens that doesn't get talked about enough is because women get sexually bored faster than men."So how can you fix the kinky problem? Women often need a high amount of sexual novelty in order to maintain an interest in having sex.