JANE SAYS: I’m not a great fan of loads of stuff. But I know a lot of people draw comfort from treasures they’ve collected. Your extensive haul clearly brought back memories and meant something to you.
For your girl to bring in the black bags the minute your back was turned smacks of arrogance and even cruelty. She must have planned the operation with military precision and knew exactly what she was doing. Am I to take it that you’re no longer allowed a say in your own home? Do your views and preferences count for nothing? Your girl may brag that she knows what’s best for you, as a couple, but she comes across as overbearing and bossy.
How would she like it if you pulled a stunt like that on her? This has to be a turning point in your relationship. She needs to hear that she has overstepped the mark.
Does she love or respect you at all? Can you talk today about where you both go from here? If you genuinely don’t want children or any of the things that she craves, then you need to speak up. Sadly, if you cannot forgive her and she’s not willing to apologise or replace any of the lost goods, then are you done here? .
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