How To Talk Dirty 101: Try These Examples and Expert Tips to Keep Them Coming Back for More

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, whether you're single or partnered. That's because dirty talk stimulates our most important sexual organ: the human brain.

But finding the right sounds, words, and phrases in the moment can be a stumbling block for even the most experienced lovers. “We are socialized to experience pleasure silently,” says sex educator . “We grow up masturbating in stealth mode where you don't make noise, you do it as fast as you can, you get off, and then you're done.

And even in high school or college, or whenever you start fumbling around with other humans, it's a quickie. You're not making a lot of noise, you're not articulating very much—maybe a couple of moans here and there.

Developing the skills to actually feel in your body and be present and say the things out loud takes time.”So, we asked relationship experts for their best tips on how to talk dirty, plus dirty talk ideas for both beginners and seasoned pros alike looking to take their game to the next level.