In a new twist in Lalalaletmeexplain's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems.
In this first week, one reader tells of her devastating experience with a man who enjoyed choking, with fatal consequences.This article includes accounts of sexual abuse and violence.
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