was off the grid for about two weeks. Trista eventually resurfaced and clarified that she was fine, although she didn’t reveal why she was MIA.Ryan, who fell in love with Trista on the first season of “The Bachelorette” in 2003, appeared on former host Chris Harrison’s podcast on June 17 and addressed his motivations for posting the bizarre messages.“The intent is not to be like, ‘Hey, I’m gonna throw this out here and make people wonder if my wife’s alive,’ ” he said on “Most Dramatic Podcast Ever.” “You know, that’s not what I’m going after here.”Ryan continued: “I’ll go months without a post, and then suddenly I’ll get, like, in a mood, and I’ll send something.