Sexual fantasies' hidden meanings as Dani Dyer admits flirting with delivery guy
ok.co.ukDani Dyer admitted that whilst pregnant with son Santiago she found herself admiring the delivery guys who knocked on her door. "I mean when I was pregnant I remember really flirting and I didn't mean to do it...when I was really heavily pregnant...with my massive belly," she told her EastEnders actor dad Danny Dyer, on their podcast Sorted with the Dyers. "Now we're getting into new realms if you're flirting with delivery drivers," Danny joked back before calling it her "fantasy".
Of course, sex and romance fantasises are very common but what do they all mean? Sex with a stranger "The fantasy of having sex with a stranger mostly connects with the need to impress and be desirable. "It might just indicate a bit of insecurity regarding a particular personality trait, and a bit of need to have power," says Callisto Adams PhD, Relationship Coach at HeTexted who spoke to us on behalf of MrQ.
Sex with someone of the same sex "Fantasising about same-sex relations often indicates curiosity, the need for trying something different, and in most cases fear of a person’s own sexuality," explains Callisto. "When someone isn’t clear with the idea of their sexuality they tend to fantasise and leave it in a fantasy without taking the guts to try it in real life. "As long as it stays as a fantasy it raises curiosity and leaves room for the person to keep imagining and seeking their sexual needs to be fulfilled differently." Being the dominant partner "If you want to be the dominant one, you may feel like you lack power in real life or the workplace.
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