Raquel Leviss Told Ariana Madix on ‘Vanderpump Rules’ Her Concerns About Her Sex Life With Tom Sandoval Were ‘In Her Head’

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Loaded advice? Raquel Leviss weighed in on Ariana Madix and Tom Sandoval’s sex life — and boosted Ariana’s self-esteem — amid her secret affair with the TomTom cofounder.“It just sometimes feels lately, like, we haven’t been as connected,” Tom, 40, confessed to Ariana, 37, during the Wednesday, May 10, episode of Vanderpump Rules amid their relationship ups and downs. “You snap at me and you f—king belittle me in front of people.

That really f—king hurts my feelings.”While the Florida native “agreed” with her then-boyfriend about “not being connected” she wasn’t convinced that more sex would help their dynamic.“I just want to f—king be better.

I want to us to be more intimate,” Tom explained while having a small breakdown at their shared home. “Having sex, like, four times a year, that also affects me.”Ariana quipped: “OK, well then maybe you need to spend time with me because I cannot have sex with somebody who feels like a stranger.”Elsewhere in the episode, the Buying Back My Daughter actress opened up to Raquel, 28, about her insecurities and how they had started to affect her sex life with the Schwartz & Sandy’s cofounder.“I feel like in a relationship you should want to have sex,” Raquel told Ariana during the Something About Her party at SUR.

The Fancy AF Cocktails coauthor agreed, but pointed out, “You have to be emotionally intimate to be physically intimate.”When asked whether she was still “sexually attracted” to Tom, Ariana quickly replied, “Oh my God, I think he’s so f—king hot.”In order to view the video, please allow Manage CookiesShe then confessed that she doesn’t feel sexy. “I’m like, ‘I’m not hot,’” Ariana said of her physique. “You don’t look at my body and go, ‘Yeah, that’s what I want.