How to Use Sex Toys, According to a Sex-Toy Expert 2025

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, especially a more basic one, isn't as complicated as some instruction booklets make it seem. Here's my advice on how to use sex toys based on the most common types on the market, as well as recommendations that I firmly believe belong in everyone's nightstand.

Remember: You'll want to get comfortable, and be patient with yourself. It takes time to figure out what angle and pressure feels good for you—but your sexual pleasure is well worth the effort. (Pro tip: A water-based is great to have on hand, as it reduces friction, relaxes you, and can be used with most silicone sex toys.)AmazonLovehoneyWe-VibeThis bullet vibrator has a long-lasting battery (two hours), angled tip that applies pinpointed pressure to the clit, and eight intensities that are stronger than you'd ever expect.

It's also super discreet.AmazonDamePalm vibrators fit intuitively in the hand, allowing you to easily explore every possible during foreplay, masturbation, and sex.

They provide gentle, all-over vulva stimulation. Although you’ll only get about an hour of use out of Pom before it needs a recharge, with its 10 vibration modes, you can cover a lot of ground in that amount of time.AmazonDameThe Dame Fin tethers to the fingers, holds a charge for 90 minutes, and offers a gentle buzz that's excellent for nipple stimulation and against the clitoris during foreplay or penetration.AmazonLovehoneyOf all the wand vibrators out there, the one that really stands out for me is the Magic Wand Micro.