– Lily, CardiffFamily may be incredibly important to you (and I agree with you, family is hugely important). And yet, and yet…Letter subhead: We cannot choose our partners based on what our parents think of them.
We have to make our own decisions and follow our own instincts. If we try to second-guess what Mummy or Daddy might say or secretly think about the love of our life, we’re lost.
Supposing your boyfriend told you he was dumping you because his mum didn’t like you? Well, exactly.So make your own mind up about this guy.
Discount your mother’s opinions – she may have been emboldened by your equivocal remarks about the relationship; but your protective response to her criticisms implies that you’re inclining towards a positive view of it.
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