with my first child, it was a total surprise. I wasn't on birth control. I was in college and not married. My parents were supportive, but I could tell they were disappointed: My family had always pushed for me to finish my studies and have a successful career before starting my own family.
So, when I got pregnant, I felt like I had failed them in some way.I was also terrified of becoming a mother. I wasn’t ready to give up my freedom or social life.
I wasn’t sure if I could handle the responsibility of taking care of another human being. At the time, I wasn't financially secure and I was working two jobs in addition to going to college, so my pregnancy was filled with stress and worry. .
Fortunately, I had a wonderful partner who was supportive and understanding. He helped me through the pregnancy—but we decided to put off having any more children until I felt ready.
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