A Woman’s Husband Closed His Eyes During Oppenheimer’s Sex Scenes Because of ‘Betrayal Trauma’

glamour.com:

Oppenheimer discourse was dead! It’s a tale as old as social media itself. Someone who is deep into one corner of the internet—say, an antiporn marriage advice TikToker—has their content lifted into a very different corner of the internet—say, Film Twitter—and everyone’s reaction is pretty much “What on Earth are the other people talking about?”In this case, it’s a young woman, Jourdan, a mother and wife with over 80k followers on her TikTok account @thatsnotlove, who made a video about how she and her husband saw Oppenheimer in theaters, and how they navigated the movie’s sex scenes.

She and her husband decided beforehand that whenever there was nudity, he would close his eyes and rest his head on her shoulder so that she could quietly tap him when the scene was over and it was safe to look again.

Kinda how my mom closes her eyes during really scary plane crash scenes (she has a thing about turbulence) except also not like this at all.This video was reposted to Twitter by Bethany, a.k.a. @filmgal, with the caption, “This actually makes me feel like I’m losing my mind,” and two days later it’s been viewed 38 million times.This content can also be viewed on the site it from.Hoo, boy.

A lot to unpack here.Like, listen, if you and your husband both decide that that’s how you wanna watch movies…fine. Go for it.