'90 Day Fiancé's Debbie on Oussama's 'Madness' and If They've Been Intimate (Exclusive)

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newcomer Debbie has quickly become a standout cast member this season due to her unconventional relationship with Oussama, who's 43 years younger than her.

ET's Melicia Johnson recently sat down with 67-year-old Debbie, who got candid about the criticism she's received for dating 24-year-old Oussama from Morocco, and why she's sure she's not being taken advantage of.Nobody is more concerned than Debbie's kids about her relationship with Oussama, most vocally her son Julian, who hasn't been shy about not supporting her decision to move to Morocco from Georgia.

Debbie, who first connected with Oussama on social media about their mutual love for art, insisted to ET that Oussama isn't being deceptive with her in any way.«I didn't even know what a real catfish was because it's like to me, it's hard to put on the mental thinking cap of using someone because I wouldn't do that, so it was hard for me to relate to that concept, but yeah, I realized there's stuff going on where people are doing mean things to other people but I said oh no, a man with this intelligence and knowledge of art and poetry, he couldn't be, like, catfishing me,» she says.Debbie has had two failed marriages in the past.

But she insisted she's been «careful» this time with Oussama — whom she's been talking to for over four years — though acknowledged she's a «very loyal person» and «very trusting.»«I said to myself, you know, no one's gonna pull anything shady on me anymore,» she says. «I've had enough shady stuff done to me my whole life so I said Oussama he's gonna be that that prince, that prince charming, and I'm going to help him and he's going to help me and it's like, my son doesn't get that but I do and you know, yeah, I'm older.