'The Bachelorette': Dotun Reacts to Seeing Charity's Love for Joey on the Show (Exclusive)

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Dotun Olubeko to see Charity Lawson's love for another man. Following Monday's season finale of, ET's Denny Directo spoke with the happy couple, and Dotun admitted that seeing his now-fiancée's feelings for other guys — mainly her runner-up, Joey Graziadei — was challenging to say the least.«It started off kind of easy and light, like, it's all goofy and we're in Barbie outfits, but then it gets more real and you see her feelings start to develop for someone else and that's tough,» he confessed. «We're in a relationship now, so I can't really just compartmentalize and be like, 'It's OK.' I'm dealing with those feelings.»Through it all, Dotun said Charity «was always there checking on me every single day, [every] episode, calling me, FaceTiming me.»«I couldn't have made it through without her, truly,» he added.Charity expanded on Dotun's thoughts, noting that «a minor kiss wasn't as hard for him to watch, but you get to a point where the connections definitely start to become a lot deeper and then a lot more feelings are involved.»With that in mind, Charity and Dotun opted to «just watch the parts that were really crucial to us,» as there was «no benefit» to watching other moments.

In that vein, Dotun admitted that he didn't watch Joey's heartbreaking goodbye with Charity, though he did catch some other intimate moments with the tennis pro.«Watching the connection grow and then watching someone else cry happy tears was really tough because that's something I hold so special, is the moments that we shared that brought me closer to her.

To see that with someone [else was hard],» he said. «There's an inside joke every time that would happen — it was mainly with Joey — I'd be like, 'Shut up, Joey.' But it's a joke.