‘Not perfect’ Ben Affleck revealed why he exercised ‘a little restraint’ in Jennifer Lopez relationship pre-divorce

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and subsequent divorce.Describing himself as a “not perfect man,” the “Argo” director, 52, shared that he wanted to “exercise a little restraint” and avoid “going into gossipy detail” about his and Lopez’s second shot at love in an attempt to avoid the same mistakes the couple made when they first started dating. “One of the harder lessons that I have learned is that it’s not wise to share everything with the world,” Affleck told The Wall Street Journal in December 2021.“There are some things which are private and intimate and have meaning in terms of their intimacy by dint of the fact that they’re not shared with the rest of the world.”He added, “I’m more comfortable just learning to find a boundary between things that I want to share and things that I don’t.

I don’t know if it’s good or bad. I don’t.” One of those boundaries was discussing his love life with the news media. “I know that I feel more comfortable having those healthy boundaries in my life around which, in a friendly and straightforward way, I tell you, I just don’t want to be talking about my personal relationship in the newspaper.”“I’m going to exercise a little restraint,” he said.

When pressed for how Bennifer 2.0 was born, Affleck was circumspect in his response. “I can say that it’s definitely beautiful to me,” he allowed. “And, you know, one of the things I really value across all facets of my life now is that it was handled in a way that reflected that.” “My life now reflects not just the person that I want to be,” he explained, “but the person that I really feel like I am—which is not perfect, but somebody who tries very hard and cares very much about being honest and authentic and accountable.” The “Air” actor added that “it’s hard to say who.