It’s Okay To Want To Look Hot. You’re Not a Bad Feminist.

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not okay to want to look good for men. I want to take their beautiful faces in my hands and say: What the hell are you talking about?

Sexual beings want to attract each other. This is not an issue of feminism. It is the behavior of a person who is a part of a society.

It is literally part of our DNA. You are not a bad feminist even if you want a random Zoom doctor to think you are hot. I want Jane Fonda’s Zoom doctor to think I am hot, even though we have never met.

Wanting everyone to think your hot is, regrettably, the human condition.I share the desire to untangle personal adornment and male approval—to resist the feeling that your looks are a gallery space and you are a curator of male fantasy.