I’m in a mixed-weight relationship — but haters say I should only date fat people

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@VoluptuousLeah to her 240,000 followers on Instagram — and her native New Yorker fella face a barrage of haters questioning their romance.“People always assume that a fat person like me should be with another fat person and that goes the other way as well,” Stanley, 33, told NeedToKnow.Online. “Too bad it’s all based from jealousy and minds filled with judgement so those comments hold zero value.”Undeterred by the haters, Stanley proudly shares her blissful life with 37-year-old tree surgeon Dan — who prefers not to reveal his last name for privacy reasons — on social media and she recently got candid about their relationship.The lovebirds don’t like to adhere to society’s rules — and according to this self-proclaimed Stanley, the weight gap has “never bothered” Dan nor herself.“And while our sex life is private — there aren’t any concerns at all,” she added.“The surprise that many people forget, unless you weigh the same as your partner, you are also in a mixed weight relationship … your size doesn’t determine who you’re attracted to – your eyes and mind do.” In one now-viral video uploaded to Instagram, which has racked up 14,700 views and hundreds of likes, Stanley shared some of the “harsh” comments people have posted. “Mostly because I think these comments are just so mindless and for that reason they be funny,” she captioned the clip. “It’s important to know that there’s always going to be someone unhappy with what you’re doing and that’s why you need to live for YOU.”She dances as multiple pieces of text pop up on the screen, including: “He’s with you for the money,” “Run for your life man” and “He must be cheating on her”.Meanwhile, she said “it’s incredibly important to take the focus off size and weight, to.