– Duane, via emailYour letter raises quite a few questions – questions you haven’t actually asked me. But on these pages I must take things pretty much at face value: ideally I’d want to know more about your new husband, and specifically why he is so determined to place you under a kind of personal lockdown for whatever time you have left.
Because I would want you to soar, Duane.So – what to do? Take control and follow your heart, of course! It’s your life, not your husband’s, not your nurse’s, not your doctor’s, not anyone else’s.
If you are physically and financially capable of travelling, eating out with friends, partying, going to concerts… oh, I don’t know, buying a Ford Mustang convertible and driving down to the south of France – then DO IT!Why spend what active time you have left in some sort of shuttered twilight world peering out of half-drawn curtains and eating Deliveroo dinners?
Yes, that cautious approach may add a little extra time to your eventual span – but time doing what? You want to live life to enjoy life!
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