Ben Affleck Says He Wants to 'Ostensibly' Be a 'Good Husband' Amid Jennifer Lopez Romance

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Ben Affleck is opening up about his hopes for his future. The 49-year-old actor covers 's December/January issue, and reveals the kind of man he wants to be, in work and in life, amid his rekindled romance with Jennifer Lopez.While Affleck notes that, for years, «fear drove» him to have a strong work ethic, that feeling has dissipated over the last few years, as he's focused on himself and his kids.

Affleck shares Violet, 16, Seraphina, 12, and Samuel, 9, with his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner.«Only in the last four years have I been able to not be so terrified, because I recognize I won’t die without work,» he explains. «The most important thing is being a good father.