Word to the wise: you might not want to come for Clare Crawley. The former Bachelorette star, 39, took to Instagram on February 17 and was totally feeling herself with her brand new ‘do when one Instagram user decided to leave a hurtful comment on the post. “Ughh give it up already! No one cares,” the hater wrote. Fortunately, Clare, who is never one to back down, had the best response.