JANE SAYS: You hurt your ex-boyfriend’s feelings during a vulnerable and intimate moment. You insulted a private part of his anatomy by branding it “monstrous”. He can’t help having a large member.
If other girls (or guys) have commented on – or even made fun of his size – in the past, then it’s little wonder he’s so sensitive. Ultimately, you can’t force or fake an attraction.
During the night in question (down at the seaside) you told him that you were tired and not in the mood for sex. You said “No” and he should have backed off, because “No” always means “No” at any stage of the proceedings.
Your relationship didn’t survive for much longer and now you’re happily single and he has to accept and respect that. Warn him that this is not a game and you will not be persuaded or won round. Sadly, if he continues to hound you, then you will have to report him for harassment.
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