— Arya, via emailI’d like to refer you to the closing paragraph of my reply to Steve in a previous response, because I think to a large extent it applies to you, too.It sounds to me as if your life has become pretty much devoid of purpose.
You say your husband is only affectionate towards you when he wants to have sex – that’s pretty horrible – and that he can’t (or won’t try to) understand why you feel so powerless and bored.You say you feel like you’ve made a mistake.
Well, maybe that’s because you have. If a life in your home country is calling to you so strongly, perhaps you should heed it.
As I advised Steve, we only get one life and there’s not much point in frittering away our precious days in (and this is your word) ‘purposeless’ existence.So my advice to you is to issue your husband with a blunt ultimatum.
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